Obituaries from 2010
The loss of the following members was reported in the magazine
Issue 166 (Autumn 2010)
Sadly, Bexley 41 Club, Mallorca 41 Club and Woking 41 Club have each suffered the loss of two members.
CLIFTON, Richard - Woking 41 Club.
DAINTY, John - Willenhall 41 Club.
EVANS, Henry - Bicester 41 Club.
FRANCIS, Ronald Walter - Camberley 41 Club.
HEARMON, Vic - Mallorca 41 Club.
HUNT, Daniel - Bexley 41 Club.
METCALF, John - Mallorca 41 Club.
MILLS, John Glenton - Liverpool Forty-One Club.
PRIMAROLO, Colin Arthur - Wallington & Carshalton 41 Club.
RIDLEY, John - Bexley 41 Club.
ROBERTS, Stan - Woking 41 Club.
THOMPSON, Barty - Halifax 41 Club.
WALKER, Gordon - Rothwell & District 41 Club.
The loss of the following members was reported in the magazine
Issue 165 (Summer 2010)
Regretfully Birmingham Handsworth has suffered the loss of two members this period and Swansea has lost a third member since the two reported in the the Winter 2009 edition.
BISHOP, Tony - Burnham & Highbridge 41 Club.
FILER, Rob - Birmingham Handsworth 41 Club.
JOHN, Llew - Swansea 41 Club.
MELLOR, Richard (Dick) - Bristol 41 Club.
PLOWS, Mike - Gordano Valley 41 Club.
PRITCHARD, Michael - Newcastle upon Tyne 41 Club.
TUCK, Frank - Hutton & Shenfield 41 Club.
TYRELL, Grenville - Dedham 41 Club.
WOOD, Chris - Birmingham Handsworth 41 Club.
The loss of the following members was reported in the magazine
Issue 164 (Spring 2010)
How sad that Westerham 41 Club suffered the loss of two members since Issue 163.
DUERDEN, Michael David - Blackburn 41 Club.
FREW, Arthur Wiseman - Kinross-shire 41 Club.
GLEN, Ian - Bridge of Weir & Kilmacolm 41Club.
MERIGOLD, Peter - Rhyl & District 41 Club.
MOUNTFORD, Michael - Caversham 41 Club.
RASTRICK, Derek Arthur - Norton-Radstock 41 Club.
SADLER, Terence John (Terry) - Long Eaton 41 Club.
SMITH, John - Westerham & District 41 Club.
WATKISS, John - Westerham & District 41 Club.
The loss of the following members was reported in magazine
Issue 166 (Autumn 2010)
CLIFTON, Richard. (1937 - 2010)
The passing of Richard Clifton is sadly announced by Woking 41 Club.
Richard was for decades nothing less than a pillar of his local community.
Busily running his own thriving garden machinery business, with an outstanding reputation far beyond its Surrey location, he was still never at a loss for finding so much time to contribute to others, fundraising activities being an especial skill and joy.
Richard gave the benefits of his energy through virtually every local organisation available - Round Table, 41 Club, Rotary, Chamber of Commerce, Masonry and numerous other more localised bodies.
As is often with Tablers, Richard is possibly also remembered for rather more zany escapades! 1970s Tablers in the southern home counties may well recall the enormously enjoyable Ascot Grand Prix - an annual pedal-power soapbox car derby. Woking Round Table's first entry was so heavily engineered by Richard in his workshops that it guaranteed that our knackered legs were well-lapped by all others within the first lap!
At the funeral service it was remarked that, latterly, Richard wondered what he had achieved in his life. In view of Richard's lifelong contributions, therefore, it was noted that he had obviously achieved the one supreme grace of humility.
All our condolences are with Richard's family.
Alan Spencer - Secretary, Woking 41 Club. ^ Back to Top ^
DAINTY, John.
John sadly died in June aged 64 after suffering from cancer for some time.
He was a past chairman of Willenhall 41 Club and a past chairman and past president of Willenhall 208 Round Table. John successfully fulfilled most offices in both clubs over many years. He was well known to all our members past and present, as well as many other local clubs, because he was our stalwart meetings organiser.
We will miss his cheerful fellowship and our thoughts are with his widow Eileen, children and grandchildren.
Gordon Nicklin - Secretary, Willenhall 41 Club. ^ Back to Top ^
EVANS, Henry.
Bicester RT 684 and Bicester 41 Club record with much sadness the loss of (Dennis) Henry Evans, a Tabler of real stature who was an inspiration to us all. His attention to detail while having an air of easy informality was admired by those close to him.
He died after a short illness at the age of 61 and is mourned by Jackie and children Warren, Nick and Paula.
Henry ran the family business in Bicester from his early twenties and soon became an active and popular Tabler, serving as secretary, and chairman in 1978/79. Just as active in Area 50, he was chairman for 1983-84 and served on Area Executive for several years. Never found wanting when hard work was needed, and always in the midst of any fun, he was the Tabler’s Tabler.
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hile being fully involved in RT and 41 Club he found time for the Chamber of Commerce, a local charity, a sporting trust, and much respected as a player and administrator in the town’s cricket club, representing the county at youth level and continuing to be involved until he became ill.
We salute him and miss him.
Roger Bond - Secretary, Bicester 41 Club. ^ Back to Top ^
FRANCIS, Ronald Walter. (24.06.21 – 28.02.10)
Camberley 41 Club is deeply saddened to announce the death of its Honorary President Ron Francis who died in his sleep on 27th February at the age of 88. Ron was instrumental in re-establishing Camberley Round Table in 1953 after it had closed during the war years and was Chairman in 1957-58 and again in 1960-61. He was President of Camberley Round Table in 1964-65 and became Honorary President of Camberley 41 Club in 1999.
He was a larger than life character with a great sense of fun not to say mischief. He was well known to the majority of Round Table and 41 Clubs in the area for his enthusiasm and vitality and, in spite of his age, was still regularly attending club meetings and social functions.
He was always full of ideas for fund raising and having fun. On one occasion, at an RT National Conference held at a Butlins, he collected some suits of armour which were on display and deposited them, later, in the entrance to Billy Butlin’s home near Camberley. On another occasion, again at a National Conference, he filled the fountains with washing up liquid!
The love of his life was his wife, Audrey, who shared his sense of fun but, sadly, pre-deceased him.
For many years, Ron was the leading photographer in Camberley and took many photographs of “old” Camberley showing its history and how it has changed over the years. Rumour has it, that to get the best aerial photographs, he was strapped to the wing of a plane. When asked if it was true, he always laughed and neither admitted or denied it.
Although a very keen Tabler and 41 Club member, Ron also had other interests. As well as being a Rotarian for many years, he was particularly keen on sailing and sailed in many parts of the world. Again, stories abound of his exploits at sea and the scares he gave some fellow Table and 41 Club members, who were foolish enough to agree to crew for him!
His wit and sense of fun will be sorely missed.
John Carpenter - Past Chairman, Camberley 41 Club. ^ Back to Top ^
HEARMON, Vic.
Vic died after a long struggle with a brain tumour involving two major operations from which he initially recovered superbly, bouncing back in our meetings and social events full of his usual cheeky wit and enthusiasm.
Vic and Gill moved to Mallorca from Abingdon with daughters Lizzie and Nixi in the mid 90s having been previously in Abingdon 41 Club. He had been an insurance broker there and continued, at a gentler pace, to pursue his profession on the island.
He was twice Chairman of Mallorca 41 and always an enthusiastic member.
We will all miss his good nature and commitment to family and our 41 Club. Our sympathies are with Gill and the family.
Graham Whitmore - Club Contact, Mallorca 41 Club. ^ Back to Top ^
HUNT, Daniel.
Bexley 41 Club. Dan died in hospital on 19th April in the evening at the
time of our A.G.M. He was 93 years old and was a founder member of Bexley Round
Table 191 and 41 Club. In both clubs he was fully involved in all activities including
being Chairman.
In the Second World War he served with distinction in the army and
was mentioned in dispatches. In 1945 he returned to retail management in
Bedeyheath. He was a perfect gentleman with a great sense of humour.
He will be
sadly missed especially by his wife Kathleen and nephews and nieces.
Malcolm McQueen - Secretary, Bexley 41 Club. ^ Back to Top ^
METCALF, John.
John died at his home in Mallorca quietly and peacefully, unlike his life and 41 Club presence which was noisy and full of fun. In recent years he played the role of our official “grumpy old man” with gusto and panache.
Despite a heart bypass operation a few years ago he enjoyed an active social and charitable life in many organisations.
A former Chairman of our Club, he was a master of entertaining at home where his speciality was Swedish food learnt from his Swedish wife who had predeceased him. He was an architect in his business life, working for many years for the British Shoe Company and travelling the world for them designing Hush Puppy outlets for unsuspecting foreigners.
We shall all miss his company and contribution to 41 Club life and offer our sympathies to his family.
Graham Whitmore - Club Contact, Mallorca 41 Club. ^ Back to Top ^
MILLS, John Glenton.
John died on 28th July 2010, aged 84.
He was the Chairman of the family firm, Mills Media, founded by his grandfather Thomas Mills III in 1876. He was a former President of the
British Institute of Professional Photography and later was made an Honorary Fellow.
John was a very active member of both Liverpool RT and Liverpool Forty-One Club, a tireless supporter of local charities and actively involved with Birkenhead Boys Club and The Athenaeum Club for many years. His favourite leisure pursuit was sailing.
We offer our condolences to his widow Beryl, children Judith, Sally, Jenny and Andrew and 10 grandchildren.
Ian Matthews - Secretary, Liverpool Forty-One Club. Et al.
For more on John's life, go to www.millsmediagroup.com/2010/johnglentonmills
David Addison - Association Honorary Archivist. ^ Back to Top ^
PRIMAROLO, Colin Arthur.
Colin Primarolo, aged 67, died peacefully at his home in Carshalton on 12th September, 2010 after an eighteen month struggle with cancer.
Colin was a member of the Wallington & Carshalton Round Table from 1969 until 1982 and subsequently a member of the eponymous 41 Club. He was an active member of both and was also a member of Carshalton Beeches Rotary Club, of which he was President in 2005-6. He was very much involved during his years in Table, and subsequently as a 41er, in the hugely successful Bonfire Night and Fireworks display. He was Chief Bonfire Builder for many years.
Colin was born on 9th November 1942 in Merton Park and was brought up in that area. He was a keen Scout and attained his Queen Scout Award. He qualified as a Chartered Quantity Surveyor and worked on projects in many parts of the world, particularly for the Lyon Group. In 1966 he married MaryAnn and they had two children, Robert and Jane. Colin then formed a business partnership with Alan Breese. They built up a property development business and were amongst the first to spot the potential in the Sandbanks area of Bournemouth, where they completed several successful projects. Colin was highly respected in his profession and well known in the City. During his illness he continued to act as a consultant and advisor on property matters.
A “larger than life” character, Colin was famous for his “Prim parties” and a great bon viveur. He could be a clown, who would get his friends laughing and was notorious for his choices of fancy dress, yet he was a serious, meticulous professional and a very private person.
Colin’s funeral was held on Thursday 23rd September at All Saints Church, Carshalton, Surrey. Over 200 family and friends, including his four grandchildren, attended a very moving ceremony. Tributes were given by an old colleague of Colin’s, Mike Basgallop, Colin’s brother-in-law, Alex Phillips, his brother Philip, and his children Robert and Jane. Alex’s tribute was given very much in the form that Colin would approve – in clown costume and in a light-hearted vein. MaryAnn then added her heartfelt tribute, saying what a wonderful husband, father, grandfather and friend Colin had been.
After a short spell in St Raphael’s Hospice Colin returned home on September 9th. He rallied enough to greet his family and some old friends during the day on Sunday 12th. In the early evening, he even asked for a pint of his favourite Young’s ordinary bitter, which Mary Ann arranged to get from a nearby pub. He drank it with his family on what was to prove to be his last evening. He died peacefully later that night.
Colin had asked that his wake should be a time to celebrate his life and that it must be held in a Young’s Pub. It was duly held on the afternoon of 23rd September, at The Dukes Head, Wallington, where Colin had also spent many happy evenings at Rotary meetings. It was brought to a very appropriate conclusion when all were summoned outside, to stand on Wallington Green. MaryAnn had arranged a Firework Finale. It was a very fitting tribute to the memory of a very fine man.
Chris Bowmer - Wallington & Carshalton 41 Club. ^ Back to Top ^
RIDLEY, John.
John died on the 8th February at the age of 83. He was a long standing member of Bexley Round Table 191 and of 41 Club since 1966 and has twice been chairman, in 1975 and again in 2004. 41 Clubbers with long memories will not have forgotten the help that many Tables gave to the people of Skopje in Macedonia when a huge earthquake struck in 1963. John was one of a group of Bexley Tablers who towed a caravan out to Skopje as a gift to the local people.
Outside of 41 Club, John was the author of several volumes on Safety at Work; he was the first Chairman of The Bexley Civic Society and also the first Chairman of The Crossness Engines Trust which rescued and restored the great steam powered beam engines which pumped the sewerage for Victorian London.
Our condolences to his widow Maureen and his children Sue, Kevin and Isobel.
Malcolm McQueen - Secretary, Bexley 41 Club. ^ Back to Top ^
ROBERTS, Stan.
Woking 41 Club so sadly announce the passing of Stan Roberts, one of our oldest members in all senses of the word.
For Stan, by the 1960s, was transferring from Woking RT into Woking 41 Club shortly after its inauguration, and had therefore attended virtually every meeting, throughout most of our nearly 50 years' existence!
A Past Chairman, Stan continued this splendid record right through to this July, his last month with us. Although becoming increasingly aged, there was very rarely a meeting that did not have Stan sitting in 'his' seat, and he was often one of the last to be dragged away home!
But that was only the tip of his continued local involvement. The evening immediately after each 41 meeting's late night out would also have seen him at Rotary, where he maintained an equally impressive attendance record. In fact, Stan was a founder member of Woking & District Rotary.
And there was rarely a 41 social event he didn't attend, including bowls and snooker - although he did draw the line at our particularly manic version of cross-country cycling!
Stan remained a gentleman of a bygone era - always maintaining the wearing of his trademark cravat or bow tie!
Sadly pre-deceased some years ago by his charming wife, Stan continued to enjoy his very close family, to whom we offer our condolences.
A gentle man and a gentleman, indeed.
Alan Spencer - Secretary, Woking 41 Club. ^ Back to Top ^
THOMPSON, Barty.
Halifax 41 Club are sad to announce the death of one of their long standing members, Barty Thompson on the 1st August 2010 at Fulford, York. Barty was 91 and had been ill for quite some time.
A director of the Halifax Building Society, Barty worked in various parts of the country before coming to Halifax from Lowestoft in the late 60s where he retired from the society after being involved in some innovative training of staff members.
He was also a freeman of the Borough of Alnwick, a privilege handed down to the male members of his family.
His wife, Dorothy, died in 2009.
Derek Hirst - Secretary, Halifax 41 Club. ^ Back to Top ^
WALKER, Gordon. (19.10.30 - 09.06.10)
Rothwell & District 41 Club were very saddened by the death of one of their Founder Members, Gordon Walker, who died suddenly in Pinderfields Hospital on the 9th of June.
Gordon was Chairman of Rothwell & District 41 Club in 1989/1990, and whilst he had not been particularly well for some time, he had continued to be an active member who very rarely missed any of Rothwell 41 Club’s meetings; and indeed, had managed to achieve a 100% attendance record in 2007/2008 winning the Rothwell Attendance Trophy.
Gordon was a popular and well respected Member who had attended our 33rd Reunion Charter Dinner in April; our AGM in May; and we take solace in knowing that he had fully participated in our Sports Quiz, after enjoying a meal with all his ex-Table friends at our 41 Club Meeting the night before he died.
In addition to being a Founder Member of Rothwell 41 Club in 1977, Gordon was also a Founder Member of Rothwell & District Round Table in 1967 and, in recognition of his long and dedicated service to both Round Table and 41 Club, he had been given the ultimate accolade of ‘Life Honorary Member’ of Rothwell at the 41 Club AGM earlier this year.
Gordon’s funeral was held on Tuesday 22nd of June at Wakefield Crematorium and was attended by many past and present Tablers and their wives.
Our thoughts and condolences are with his son Chris, his daughters Sue and Sharon and all the family.
David Weaver - Secretary, Rothwell & District 41 Club. ^ Back to Top ^
The loss of the following members was reported in magazine
Issue 165 (Summer 2010)
BISHOP, Tony.
After a long illness which he bore with fortitude, Tony died on 15th February 2010 in St Margaret's Hospice, Taunton, aged 74 years.
His friends remember him for his unswerving loyalty and his dedication to the ethos of Round Table and 41 Club. Tony was a never man, in that he never said no when called upon to help somebody in need, he never let a friend down, and he never mentioned all the charitable acts he did on a regular basis.
On a brighter note he was great company and most knowledgeable about wine, a fine chef producing gastronomic delights when hosting a dinner party, a great bon viveur.
His consuming interest was in steam engines both on railways and on fairground traction engines. He was also a skilled model engineer.
Over the 45+ years of our friendship he and I had many heated arguments which only sometimes ended in agreement, but always in complete fellowship and bonhomie.
He will be sorely missed by his wife Joan , his daughters, his grandchildren and his many friends. He departed on the "Slow Train" which sadly left too soon.
John Mellor - Burnham and Highbridge 41 Club. ^ Back to Top ^
FILER, Rob.
Birmingham Handsworth 41 Club are sad to announce the death of Rob Filer aged 65.
Rob, a retired Head Teacher, had been suffering from cancer for some time.
He transfered in to Handsworth Round Table from Willenhall RT and later joined Handsworth 41 Club. Born in Tredegar he never forgot his Welsh roots. Even when ill he still managed recently to watch his beloved Wales play England at Cardiff. He also enjoyed a recent ski-ing holiday. Game to the end he will be sadly missed.
O
ur thoughts are with his partner Terry and his children Matt, Tim and Emily.
John Haycock - Chairman, Birmingham Handsworth 41 Club. ^ Back to Top ^
JOHN, Llew.
We are extremely sorry to announce the death of another member Llew John who died recently following a long battle with cancer. Llew, a former member of Cardiff Round Table, transferred to Swansea Round Table many years ago and then joined Swansea 41 Club and was our chairman in 1979. He leaves his wife Peggy and daughters Helen, Judith and Carole and will always be remembered by us all.
Doug Camp - Swansea 41 Club. ^ Back to Top ^
MELLOR, Richard (Dick) Furley. (07.04.22-07.03.10)
Dick, a member of Bristol 41 Club, died peacefully at home on Sunday March 7th 2010 after a short illness, age 87. He was formerly a Commander in the Royal Naval Reserve. A Past President of Avonmouth Rotary Club, he was District Governor of Rotary District 1100 in 1982-83. He leaves his wife Rosemary, four children, nine grandchildren and five great grandchildren. He will be sadly missed.
Rosemary Mellor. ^ Back to Top ^
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Mike with his great grandson |
PLOWS, Mike. (15.06.30-28.01.10)
Gordano Valley 41 Club is sad to announce the passing of Mike Plows who died on 28th January following a heart attack in Bristol at the age of 79.
For many years, Mike was a member of Scarborough Round Table. After he moved to Portishead, Mike became a founder member of Gordano 41 Club when it was chartered in 1976.
At 41 Club meetings, Mike was a regular attender at both indoor and outdoor events. He could play a mean game of bowls and always gave full commitment to whatever he undertook. One post in any club that is both crucial and unpopular is that of Treasurer. Mike Plows was 41 Club Treasurer on several occasions and extracted our money and balanced our books with skill and the minimum of fuss. In latter years, as his health became more of an issue, Mike took on the job of auditor and latterly accounts inspector, and served in this capacity for a number of years.
When Gordano Valley Round Table ran the local Portishead Carnival, it encouraged 41 Club to assist on the Carnival Field. Mike was always there to help on the gate and on stalls. Mike was never happier than when he was fully involved and he gave 100% commitment to helping our club. Our involvement with Carnival lasted until Gordano Valley Round Table became too small to undertake the project.
One recollection serves to sum up Mike’s character. 41 Club invited a speaker to talk about the 125 Club, a charity set up to help the prostitutes in St Pauls. The speaker was a lady, Valerie Jeal, and we had good attendance (some members, I am afraid, thinking the subject might be a bit saucy). The talk was riveting and convinced us that prostitutes were unfortunate victims of an exploitative system. Unusually, the club made a sizeable donation to the charity, but Mike Plows said Valerie deserved a medal. True to word, Mike turned up at the next 41 Club meeting with a nomination form for Honours. We were all happy to sign this and our speaker appeared in the next Honours list as receiving an MBE for services to charity work. A tribute to Mike’s character and sense of fair play.
Gordano Valley 41 Club has lost a long standing and committed member and we remember his time with us with gratitude, whilst mourning his loss.
Mike is survived by his children Richard, Jane, Sarah, John and Anna to whom we offer our condolences.
David Pugh – Immediate Past Chairman, Gordano Valley 41 Club. ^ Back to Top ^
PRITCHARD, Michael. (10.10.44–11.04.10)
Michael died in April 2010 aged 65. He had developed cancer last Autumn, but bore it with his usual good temper and humour. Michael was born in Rotherham and joined Newcastle RT 127 after moving north in 1978. He graduated to 41 Club in 1985, and had served as chairman in both clubs and as treasurer of 41 Club for many years. He was an enthusiastic and active member and his fellowship will be sadly missed.
Michael wisely retired early from full time work in a building society and worked part time for a while, allowing him to add golf to his other skills, which included DIY, cooking, music and making people laugh. He leaves his wife Christine, two daughters and four grandsons.
Rob Thomson - Treasurer, Newcastle upon Tyne 41 Club. ^Back to Top ^
TUCK, Frank. (20.12.39-26.02.10)
Our serving Chairman for the second time, having first acted in that capacity in 1988-89, Frank sadly passed away aged 70 having lost a short and difficult battle against cancer.
Frank was a larger than life character who affected the lives of and brought pleasure to so many people through his abiding and dedicated interest in them via community service allied to his irrepressible sense of humour. His service to others commenced on joining Hutton & Shenfield Round Table in 1967, becoming the Club’s chairman in 1977-78.
Other than his committed involvement in the Club’s many community projects Frank’s undertaking, as a qualified electrical contractor, all the electrical requirements for the Club’s Annual Fireworks display and its Christmas Float – the Club’s two main fund raising events – was of inestimable value, though he would be inclined to laughingly pass these off as Heath Robinson ‘lash-ups’! Not being satisfied with continuing his enthusiasm for service solely through the medium of 41 Club, Frank joined Brentwood a Becket Rotary where he became deeply involved in supporting both youth activities as well as services for old people. He rose to become President of his Rotary Club in 1998-99 and for some few years was also an Assistant District Governor. Rotary also awarded him a Paul Harris Fellowship in recognition of his services to the community.
Frank’s incomparable enjoyment of companionship, his keen perception of core values and his infectious and masterly wit will be greatly missed by all his Club colleagues and friends.
He is survived by his wife Christine, two sons and 10 grandchildren to all of whom our thoughts and condolences are offered.
Raymond Ball - Secretary, Hutton & Shenfield 41 Club. ^ Back to Top ^
TYRELL, Grenville.
The club is very sad to report the death of Grenville Tyrell in January of this year. He is survived by his wife Iris.
Gren had been Social Secretary for some 27 years and as such was responsible for the ordering of meals, not always an easy task considering the average of members was over 80.
He also introduced our monthly agenda, the item called “Chestnut Corner” when members would relate incidents in their lives both humorous and otherwise, that might be of interest.
Apart from six years’ wartime service in the RAF, Gren spent his entire working life wrestling with the mysteries of local government finance rising to be deputy treasurer of the then newly-formed Tendring District Council.
Outside his working life Gren was a man of many interests, being one-time Battalion Commander of the local Church Lads Brigade and after retirement became a keen sailor, golfer and bridge player and even at the age of 88 decided to take up water colour painting.
Gren wrote our own 41 Club Grace based on that of Round Table. His great attention to detail and love of formality provided to a large extent the framework upon which our club has been built. He will be badly missed.
Bob Cole – member, Dedham 41 Club, who had known Gren since his school days. ^ Back to Top ^
WOOD, Chris.
Birmingham Handsworth 41 Club are deeply saddened to announce the death of Chris Wood, aged 73.
Chris was a member of Handsworth Round Table for eleven years and a member of 41 Club for thirty-three years. He had battled against cancer for over twenty years and also undergone a kidney transplant. It is only recently that he has been unable to attend meetings due to his illness. Chris will be fondly remembered for his great sense of humour and his amazing memory of RT and 41 Club local history.
Our sympathies are with his widow Helen, children William and Sally and his grandchildren.
John Haycock - Vice Chairman, Birmingham Handsworth 41 Club. ^ Back to Top ^
The loss of the following members wasreported in the 'Links' magazine
Issue 164 (Spring 2010)
DUERDEN, Michael David.
With sadness we regret to record the death on
April 25th 2009
of Michael, former Table and 41 Club Chairman, husband of Pat and father of Emma and Rachel. Sadly missed by all.
Blackburn 41 Club. ^ Back to Top ^
FREW, Arthur Wiseman. (31.08.46 - 21.12.09)
Kinross-shire 41 Club is sad to announce the untimely passing of Arthur Frew who died unexpectedly following a relatively short illness aged just 63. Diagnosed with a sarcoma, a fairly rare form of cancer, a few months ago, Arthur underwent extensive treatment including surviving a hospital acquired infection and was making good progress and just starting to look forward to resuming his full activities.
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Magdalene Glass receives a bouquet from Kinross Rotary President Arthur Frew, on her 103rd birthday.
With acknowledgements to The Courier 24-02-05 |
Sadly, he suffered a relapse and passed away with little warning just before Christmas. Born and brought up in the west of Scotland, Arthur joined Round Table at Larkhall in 1974. Later he became a member of Wishaw RT before moving to Kinross in 1984 where he joined the local Table. After retiring from Table, Arthur joined Kinross-shire 41 Club where he served as Club Chairman.
As well as contributing to 41 Club activities, Arthur was, for a period, a member of Kinross and District Rotary Club and was President of that Club during its centenary year.
Arthur is survived by Jean whom he married in 1970, and their three children, Gregor, Jillian and Lynsey to whom we offer our sincere condolences.
Chris Willsher - Secretary/Treasurer, Kinross-shire 41 Club. ^ Back to Top ^
GLEN, Ian William.
It is with great sadness that Bridge of Weir & Kilmacolm 41Club advises of the passing of Ian Glen in February 2009, age 64.
Ian was an active Round Tabler and Chairman of the Club. He was also Chairman of 41 Club. Although Ian, in early retirement, had ventured forth with his wife Marianne to the canals of Amsterdam and France in their boat, his sudden illness brought him back to Scotland.
He is survived by Marianne, his three sons, Alasdair, David and Graeme and their families.
David Wharton - Bridge of Weir & Kilmacolm 41 Club. ^ Back to Top ^
MELZER, Dr. jur. Einhart. (23.05.23 - 19.12.09)
We, the Tablers in Germany and all international friends, mourn a great loss by his passing.
Einhart’s last appearance at Old Tablers Germany (OTD) was during our Half Year Meeting in Munster. He was facing life full of happiness and courage and he participated fully at the meeting and celebrated with us. We fondly recall these last days in September 2009, when Einhart was still so bright and cheerful. Bob Parton reported to me on Sunday morning during the Farewell: "Albert, Einhart was so contented yesterday evening, he was even singing in the bath before going to bed!" Einhart so enjoyed the HYM he soon booked in for the next OTD AGM in Zweibrucken from May 28th to 30th 2010.
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June 1948 - A student preparatory committee for the establishment of a free university is launched.
Session of the first elected AStA, Berlin Free University.
Standing: founding student Otto Hess. To his left (with glasses) Georg Kotowski, right Charlotte Homann, Hans-J. Gaebler, Einhart Melzer, Hans Schröter, Klaus Heinrich and Wolfgang Kalisz. Michael on the left side pocket.
© HSA FUB, Iconographic magazine Colloquium |
Let us look back:
In May 2009 we celebrated OTD’s 40th anniversary during the AGM in Stade. It was particularly unfortunate that Einhart could not attend. His wife Annelies was seriously ill and naturally he wanted to stay with her and give his care and support at this difficult time. Only a few weeks later, in the beginning of June, Annelies died. For Einhart, although he was well aware of the approaching end, this was a heavy blow.
Einhart was the architect of Old Tablers Germany. His ideas and his comprehension of friendship and international understanding formed the foundation on which OTD was built, and which is still good enough for 222 clubs with 4500 members nowadays. Not only was OTD created according to his blueprints, but also 41 International’s formation in which he decisively participated.
Einhart, in 1965, launched the first club of former Round Table members, today’s OT 1 Berlin. He presided over this club from 1965 to 1976. Later on he was its President again four times, most recently in 2001-02.
The next Old Tablers clubs were OT 2 Constance in 1966 and OT 3 Wilhelmshaven, OT 4 Nuremberg, OT 5 Wuppertal. all in 1967.
Soon Einhart had the idea to give the OT clubs a "roof", our present-day OTD. As we all know OTD was established on May 31, 1969. It’s not surprising that he became the founding National President during the first three years after the start of Old Tablers Germany, in 1969-70, 1971-72 and 1972-73. He wanted to be sure that its structure was created to their specifications and needs. He was then OTD President a fourth time, in 1976-77.
In 1973 Einhart became an honorary member of Old Tablers Germany.
In 1974 he was elected Vice-President of the Great Britain and Ireland Association of Ex-Tablers’ Clubs, but for reasons explained below, he stood down and did not become President in 1975.
OT Berlin joined the GB&I Association in 1965 because, of course, there was no OTD at that time. The German, and later the French Clubs, made it compulsory for their clubs, to join our Association. In fact in 1975 there were 45 clubs from 11 overseas countries who were affiliated to the GB&I Association and their members were eligible for national office. In 1972 Einhart succeeded Be Dommering of Winschoten (Netherlands) who had completed his six years as a member of the Council of GB&I.
At this time the French were beginning to promote the idea of a “Club 41 International” and OTD and Belgium indicated they too would also be founders. These three organisations had always looked up to GB&I as the mother organisation and expected the first International President to be from GB&I. However, as we have seen, GB&I considered itself International and as far back as 1959 had even removed the word “National” from its title in recognition of the growing number of its overseas clubs. In response to the challenge of the Europeans' proposed formation of 41 International whose proponents claimed would render GB&I simply a national rather than an international association, it had attempted, in November 1974, to insert the word “International” in its title to further promote its overseas attraction. However, at a Special General Meeting this name change was overwhelmingly rejected by its clubs. With 41 International thus left free to be formed, Vice-President Einhart with great dignity and honour decided that he could not become President when his own country would simultaneously be forming Club 41 International.
Upon his resignation, which took effect at the GB&I AGM in 1975, he was elected a Life Honorary Member of the Association in recognition of his selfless work for the Association and in uniting 41ers in Europe.
41 International, by now with GB&I’s support, was founded on 14th June 1975. Einhart was its President during the year 1984-85 and later was made an Honorary Member of 41 International.
From 1965 through his International Presidency and again during 1991-94 when GB&I left 41 International in protest at France’s continuance of its policy of admitting non ex-Tablers, Einhart had been working on three levels simultaneously. Whether he was architect of the OT Berlin, founder of Old Tablers Germany or being counsellor and co-initiator of 41 International, he was always there on the spot and ever-present, continuously toiling behind the scenes and being a respected ambassador striving towards GB&I’s return to 41 International in 1994. At GB&I's AGM in Dublin in 1991, in the bone-chilling venue of the old Kilmainham Gaol where, according to one member “we shivered our way through the proceedings”, Einhart was one of the few who had had the foresight to wear an overcoat. With typical courtesy he took it off when he rose to address the meeting during the debate on the proposal to withdraw from 41 International. A freezing Past President Arthur Kennedy thereupon pounced, and draped Einhart's coat around his own shoulders, much to everyone else’s amusement.
Round Table Germany honoured Einhart in 2008 by naming the Vocational Training Centre (picture, left) after him, at their national service project, the "School of Hope” in Kenya.
Berlin and Einhart are so close to many visiting foreign friends’ hearts; those who have been to his Mariendorf home over the years, discussed with him the difficult times as he persuaded us all that we could trust the true Germans, confirming that not all were bandits as were the National Socialist movement (Nazis). He had always appreciated these friends’ help and strength, particularly GB&I, during his constant fight with forces of occupation. His father, as a former city councillor, was imprisoned by the Nazis between 1934 and 1945 because of resistance and again in 1947, this time by the communists. Einhart too had been arrested by the Russians in 1948 and jailed in Leipzig Town Hall for 16 months.
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01.03.2008. Einhart shows his former cell to members of 41 Club from Germany, Ireland, France and South Africa. |
He had a magic and emotional moment years later, during the German National Presidency of Bob Parton (2005-06) who invited him to Charter the Leipzig Old Tablers Club; this took place in the very same room in Leipzig Town Hall (picture, right) where Einhart had been imprisoned years before.
He took every opportunity since 1956 as a Round Tabler and Old Tabler to serve the reunification of Germany and with that the reintegration of Leipzig also. In many talks and lectures - above all, abroad – he was able to express the German peoples' feelings about this time. He did so much to unite the then alien Germans into the Round Table / 41 International fold. His ability to persuade the Dutch to allow the Germans into the flock will never be forgotten. Through his human warmth, his national and international friendship, his invaluable service for the collective good, for freedom, justice, solidarity, tolerance and international understanding Einhart accomplished something great and stimulated us all.
These personal qualities ran alongside his business and professional attributes.
Einhart was a lawyer and very highly rated at high level in the German Parliament. He was made the President of the Law Society in 1975, the same year as he would have been 41 Club President in GB&I. He
was for many years head of the administration of the Federal Institute for Materials Research and Testing in Berlin.
He earned the highest award that any German could achieve and that is the "German Cross for Merit" which modestly he rarely spoke about.
We will miss Einhart’s inimitable way. He wanted us to continue OTD in the way he had always wished for. That is what we will together work for.
Albert Lütke Zutelgte - OTD President 2009/2010 - On behalf of the Board of Old Tablers Germany.
The funeral service for Einhart was on Friday 15th January 2010, 14:00 o’clock at the Old Cemetery in Berlin-Mariendorf village, Christus-Kirchhof, Marie Damm 225-227. Many of Einhart's companions, also from international organizations, participated in the ceremony. On the evening there was an opportunity, especially for the overnight guests, to meet together at dinner. We did not want Einhart to walk alone.
If you want more information, contact: Herbert Kaiser, kaiserhb@aol.com 04731/1286 or
Conrad Lutz, OT 1, renate.conrad@gmx.de or 030/8241918.
Condolences may be sent to kondolenz@otd-mail.de
Edited by David Addison (Association Honorary Archivist) to add references including to Einhart’s GB&I career and with acknowledgements to the further information gleaned on the web, but mainly from other OTD publications, including the condolences appearing on the OTD webpage:
http://old-tablers-germany.de/index.php/Home/Kondolenz_zum_Tod_von_Einhart_Melzer/171-1. ^ Back to Top ^
MERIGOLD, Peter Arnold.
Rhyl & District 41 Club reports the death of member Peter Merigold in September, at the age of 75.
Peter joined Leicester Round Table as a youngster and when he transferred to Rhyl in 1961 they gave him a trophy to bring with him - the Merigold Mouth which was presented annually and appropriately at the AGM, to that year's biggest stirrer. He was a great supporter of Area 36, a Past Chairman of Rhyl 325 and a Past President of 41.
Although he had not enjoyed the best of health in recent years, he remained a regular and committed member of the club.
He is survived by his wife Anne, daughter Annette and son Jonathan, grandchildren Louise, Michael and Philip and granddaughter Ellie.
Allan Jones - Club Contact, Rhyl & District 41 Club. ^ Back to Top ^
MOUNTFORD, Michael.
Caversham 41 Club is sad to announce the passing of Michael Mountford.
Michael started his Round Table days in Wantage in 1970 and then spent a further 13 years with Caversham 1047 where he held several posts including that of Chairman.
He died on 25th November aged 64 after a protracted battle with cancer. Following his RT days Michael became an enthusiastic member of Caversham 41 Club where again, as was his habit, he fully involved himself in the Club and served as Chairman.
Michael was truly a gentleman of whom no-one ever spoke ill and was liked and respected by all who were fortunate enough to meet and know him.
He had served twice as President of
Langley and Iver Rotary Club in 2007/08 but regrettably was not given enough time to enjoy his retirement from his work as a Chartered Surveyor.
He leaves his wife Vicki, three children and seven grandchildren.
Steve Trinder - Secretary, Caversham 41 Club. ^ Back to Top ^
RASTRICK, Derek Arthur.
Derek passed away
on 30th September 2009
aged 80, following a long illness.
He was a dedicated and committed member of 41 Club, always with plenty of advice, and a great sense of humour. He was Chairman of 41 Club in 1974-1975, and right up to his passing was always interested in the well being of the club.
His great love was cricket, both playing and umpiring, and being Vice President of the Midsomer Norton Cricket Club for many years. Following his retirement as a head teacher he devoted his life to gardening and his love of music, and together with his wife Vivienne travelled extensively around the world visiting numerous theatres on their travels.
Derek leaves his wife Vivienne and two daughters.
Mike Kinnersley - Secretary, Norton-Radstock 41 Club. ^ Back to Top ^
SADLER, Terence John (Terry). (1941-2010)
Terry passed away on New Year’s Day after a long illness, at the age of 68. He showed much fortitude in his fight against myeloma, being in a wheelchair for the last three years. He remained full of hope until the end.
A member of Beeston 41 Club he also joined the Long Eaton Club a little later and in both he was always popular, with a sense of fun and openness.
No doubt Terry gained the ability to communicate through his position as Sales Director of a local Vauxhall dealership, with which he had been involved for almost 25 years. Originally he had worked for a local telecommuncations company before finding his true vocation.
The large attendance at his funeral showed the high esteem in which he was held. Our condolences and best wishes go to his wife Maureen, daughter Helen and her husband Devon.
Alan Oxley - Long Eaton 41 Club. ^ Back to Top ^
SMITH. John.
Belated notification, due to left hand not knowing what the right was doing, but in June 2009, legendary Biggin Hill and Area 26 Tabler, John Smith, died at the very young age of 71. He had been a Parkinson's Disease sufferer for some years.
He was a founder member of Biggin Hill RT 1016 and inaugural Secretary before being Table Chairman in 1972/3. Having been Area Treasurer he subsequently became Area 26 Chairman in 1976/7 and was then National Councillor. He joined the newly formed 41 Club which eventually became part of Westerham & District 41 Club.
A former banker and keen footballer, he left his wife Gwen, two children and several grandchildren.
Mike Martineau - Immediate Past President, Westerham & District 41 Club. ^ Back to Top ^
WATKISS, John
Westerham & District 41 Club is sad to report the death of John Watkiss who was just 64. He died on 10th January having suffered a stroke.
He joined Biggin Hill Round Table in 1981 and quickly established himself as an entertainer and as a hard working Tabler. He took responsibility as Resources Convenor and staged some innovative and very successful fund raising events including a 40s night that raised a small fortune. He was almost single-handedly responsible for BHRT winning the Area 26 Jokers Wild event and was the brains behind their entry in the Area 26 Talent Night with his production of Snow White and the 11 Dwarves.
With his wife, Shelagh, he went on to open and establish one of the most successful entertainment venues in the South East. This was Botley Farmhouse near Woldingham in Surrey, a venue that apart from serving a great selection of real ales and great food has hosted almost every well known entertainer. People like Mike Read, Stan Boardman and Jimmy Greaves have been regulars as have the very best of the Tribute Bands for Queen and the Rolling Stones and many others besides.
John was always a generous and entertaining host to 41 Club and when he sat at our table was hilarious company telling stories about the acts he had hosted and regaling us with their jokes. He hosted our 25th Charter Night and also an unforgettable Euromeeting Dinner where we had Table and 41 Club friends from Germany, France, Holland and Sweden. When we staged a fundraiser that successfully raised money to build houses in Sri Lanka for those made homeless by the Tsunami, his and Shelagh’s help and generosity ensured the event was a financial winner.
He had just started to step back from his business in order for Shelagh and him to enjoy a well deserved retirement so his loss is even more of a tragedy. He will be greatly missed.
Mike Martineau - Immediate Past President, Westerham & District 41 Club. ^ Back to Top ^
Photo: "Missed: Popular landlord John Watkiss died of a stroke on January 10. He was 64". With acknowledgements to www.thisissurreytoday.co.uk. 25/01/10
See report at www.thisissurreytoday.co.uk/news/Raise-glass-John/article-1737766-detail/article.html
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